For many people, thoughts of divorce don’t arrive suddenly. They begin quietly – with a sense that something isn’t right, or that the relationship no longer feels sustainable. You may find yourself reflecting on your wellbeing, your children, and what you want the future to look like.
At Jackson Lees Group, we often speak to people at this exact stage. You may not know whether divorce is the right answer – and that uncertainty is completely normal. Taking time to understand your options, and speaking to someone who can guide you through them calmly and clearly, can make all the difference.
Ben Dale, Associate Solicitor in our Family Law team, shares some key considerations for anyone questioning whether divorce may be the right step in 2026.
How do you decide if divorce is the right choice?
No two relationships are the same, and there is rarely a single reason people begin to think about divorce. You may recognise some of the following:
- Feeling worn down by ongoing emotional or physical strain
- Repeated conflict about finances
- A gradual breakdown in trust or communication
- Questioning whether staying together “for the children” is truly in their long‑term interests
These thoughts can build slowly over time, and it’s very common to go back and forth before reaching any conclusions.
Importantly, speaking with a family solicitor does not commit you to divorce. Many people simply want clarity about what their options look like, particularly since the introduction of no‑fault divorce has changed how the process works. Early advice helps you understand the legal, financial and practical implications, so you can make informed decisions at your own pace.
What are the alternatives to divorce?
Divorce is just one route. Depending on your circumstances and what you both want, you may want to explore alternatives such as:
- Mediation: a structured, supportive way to talk things through with an independent mediator
- Collaborative law: where you and your partner work with your solicitors to reach agreement without going to court
- A separation agreement: setting out how you’ll live separately before deciding whether to divorce
- Counselling or relationship support: helping you gain clarity on whether the relationship can be rebuilt
These options can help reduce conflict, stress and costs. At Jackson Lees Group, we can explain how each process works and guide you toward the approach that feels right for you.
What should you do before making any formal decisions?
If you’re beginning to think seriously about separation or divorce, it can help to:
- Seek legal advice so you understand your rights from the outset
- Gather important financial information
- Reflect on practical arrangements for children
- Consider your long-term goals and what kind of future you want
Early advice gives you clarity, not commitment. It simply helps you make informed decisions at your own pace.
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Reaching the point where you're thinking about divorce, or even quietly wondering what your options might be, can feel heavy, lonely and emotionally exhausting.
You may be carrying questions you’ve never said out loud, or fears about your children, your home or your future. Whatever you’re feeling, you don’t have to go through this on your own.
At the Jackson Lees Group, we understand how deeply personal this moment is. Our Family Law team is here to offer calm, compassionate guidance when everything else feels uncertain.
When you speak to us, there is no pressure, no assumptions and no expectation that you’ve already made a decision. A conversation with us is simply a chance to talk things through, understand your rights, and begin to explore what your future could look like.
A better future starts with a conversation.
Whenever you’re ready, we’re here to listen.
Give us a call, request a callback or make an enquiry to find out how the Jackson Lees Group can support you.